Get The L Out

Content warning: The screenshots on this page include many phrases used in conversion therapy (sexual orientation change efforts). There are mentions of rape.

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We wanted to show the pervasive anti-lesbian harassment, coercion and shaming of exclusively same-sex attracted females by people in the (L)GBT community so we collected these screenshots.

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the problem is lesbians NEVER being into male people

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being a lesbian = being a terf and a _feminist appropriating reactionary transphobe_

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written by a lesbian in the queer community

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truelesbians = terfrhetoric

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so it_s normal for lesbians to be in het relationships now..

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being the female sex is not necessary to lesbianism - says a dude

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an anti-lesbian dire-gram

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many lesbians are fine with dick..

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lesbians still get the message that only being attracted to females = fetish

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lesbianism can involve _bio-cock_ now 🙄

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lesbians only dating female people is trash, dangerous, disgusting behaviour

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think about why a penis bothers you, lesbians.

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this is _incredibly terfy_

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something is wrong with you

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comment by a lesbian in the queer community

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people IN the queer community discussing the conflation of lesbian with terf

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terf is a slur targeted at lesbians

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so because some lesbians use strap ons all lesbians might like sleeping with dudes..

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female homosexuality problematised again

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here terf is used to represent female homosexuals. We_re called vagina fetishists

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this hints at transphobia because you all think lesbian = terf

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they make it difficult for women to say no without consequences

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lesbian is outdated

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female homosexual pride gets this response..

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truth 1

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lesbian not dating a man = terf

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terf means lesbian. Female homosexuality framed as sad

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genital preferences are cissexist

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vag people

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heteronormativity somehow makes lesbians female homosexuals

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when a lesbian asked if its okay to be EXCLUSIVELY attracted to females

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normal lesbians like men

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female homosexuals don_y say you are lesbian

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stop judging genitals u gross homosexuals

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the term lesbian is oppressive lol

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lesbian = terf

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lesbians are _cock hungry_ yuckyuckyuck

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When Dana Rivers murdered a Black lesbian couple.

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apparently it_s bad that lesbians don_t do dick

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just try dick

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fetish 3456789

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fetishist .. again

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female penis is at the heart of societal fear...

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shamed for being same-sex attracted not same-gender attracted

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same sex attraction framed as a problem to be fixed.

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it_s even _terf_ to say lesbian = vagina + vagina

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because terf = gay and it_s fine to call female homosexuals dumb bitches now

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homosexuality itself is a no-no

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lesbian = terf

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lesbians reinforce misogynistic violence and degrade women by simply existing

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terf = lesbian (female homosexual) + genital fetishist comment

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when asked if female homosexuality is okay

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erm.. lesbian _oppression_

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same-sex attraction is transphobic

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man tells a lesbian it_s bigoted to not date transwomen

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saying _I_m same sex attracted_ is described as vile shit

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the reason you are labelled a terf is your refusal to date anyone born male

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a response to Ani saying lesbianism is same-sex attraction

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vulva would be more accurate but the lesbophobia is the same

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normalising heterosexuality in lesbian spaces

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the usual

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lesbianism includes males

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female homosexual = terf

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terf means lesbian

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lesbians inherently transphobic again

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female homosexuals side with anti trans rhetoric

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not dating males is akin to racism now

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female homosexuality is transphobic

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female homosexual is a terf for same-sex attraction

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not dating a male is transphobic

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cissexism

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normalising the idea a lot of lesbians have heterosexual sex

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look beyond the physical reality of their sex - to Nora Calder

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lesbians = terfs, gross, weirdos, genital obsessed. _Fetishist

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telling lesbians they_re okay is terfy

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lesbian = transphobe

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problematic lesbians for being female homosexuals

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lesbians _should_ date males

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funny how a terf is never someone who wont date transmen

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lesbianism described as a _fetish dilemma_

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no means no = terf logic now

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rape only valid reason to say no. Whybshould we have to disclose rape_

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dildos equated with dick again

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when a lesbian said trauma makes her want nothing to do with male bodies

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get over me being male - bigoted terfs

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lesbian accussed of _using the CSA card_

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lesbians don_t do dick = terf thing to say

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not sleeping with males = transphobic

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rape survivor feels guilty and is called transmisogynistic

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strap on_dildo_penis comment again _open your mind_

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dildo comment. apparently lesbian = prejudice against penises

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compassion (terf used to mean lesbian)

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genital fetishist shaming. message to female homosexuals- _you are not normal_

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terf you will bow to my girlcock choke on my girldick

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Dan Savage (a man) advice pt 1 (answer)

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long but includes close minded lesbians

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truth 3

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13yr old bullied called transmisogynistic terf

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fetishists - gross cunts. lesbian hate

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stigmatising homosexuality

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female-attracted-female-transphobes

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die in a hole

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fetishists

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open yourself up, evil lezzers

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all homosexuals are transphobic.

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they can_t imagine our orientation is legit as it is

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_deal with [sleeping with someone of the sex you_re not into]_

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lesbian asks for her orientation not to be called phobic. She is mocked _ tagged terf

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same-sex attraction is problematic

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bio sex shouldn_t matter unless you_re a tphobe

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cotton ceiling _transmisogyny_

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lesbians should consider changing..

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not liking cock is _reductive_

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lesbian = terf 24567

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female homosexual = being a nasty fuck

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not doing dick is transphobic

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kill yourself lesbians, you_re gross

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our boundaries come from our orientation but ok

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lesbians see females as genitals 2 - makes it clear OP is targeting lesbians

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usual shit- It_s not natural _ not normal to be a female homosexual

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vagina only lesbians

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female homosexuals are chauvinists who only value genitals

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being lesbian is rooted in transphobia

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terf used specifically against lesbians

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saying no framed as discrimination

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lesbians see females as genitals

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weird creepy bisexuals

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can you see the eroding of boundaries yet

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this portrays female homosexuals as bigots for our orientation

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fetishists

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do you accept lesbianism is a _loaded question_!!!!

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dating question - no acceptable answer

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lesbians not fucking men = terf

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not likiing dick is transmisogyny

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rape fantasies

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lesbians don_t sleep with men = terf

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saying dildos are dicks, so why not do dick_ classic lesbophobia

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homosexuality does not exist (uses terf)

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genitalia-based-sexual-orientations

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_genital preferences_ are wrong even if _from rape_. goood god. + terfjpg

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ugly lesbians

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advice for _getting over_ penis revulsion terf

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shame

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the definition of terf

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HR let_s us know when no doesn_t mean no

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lesbians aren_t female homosexuals now

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change your thought and speech patterns + terf

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he can_t imagine men not being central

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truth 2

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homosexual females are terfs

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lesbians DO like dicks - says a bi woman

minimising

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you might like it

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things that get you called terf

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same-sex attraction is fluid

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not fucking men = bad(1)

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throwing lesbians onto traintracks.. not homophobic at all

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strapon = more het than het sex now

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overcoming the cotton ceiling (entering lesbians underpants)

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opposite genitals

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some girls have dicks, terfs (terf means lesbian)

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call out your lesbian friend for _transmisogynistic violence_

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non-men vagina fetishists (lesbians)not attracted to women with dicks = transphobictranswoman talking about lesbians

lesbians loving women_s bodies makes this man want to kill himself - male ego

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female homosexuals saying no to males = transphobia

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lesbian = terf 345678 dildos arent penises

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Lesbians are transmen

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lesbians = terfs

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lesbians having boundaries is problematic

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raping lesbians is a fantasy

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fetishist

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L_G are evil

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gay = go away

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not fucking men = bad

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not fucking men = bad

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genital fetishist

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hates lesbians, not guilty

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not lesbians, just terfs for being against physical violence....

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homosexuals are fetishists

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lesbians don_t interact

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disgust of the opposite sex can be WORKED ON!

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terrible argument. really awful. 2_10

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no should not be allowed to mean no

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we_re jealous now

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fetishist

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lesbians are bullies

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she said nothing m8

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Gay people are bigots

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lesbians are not allowed _excuses_

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mansplaining

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reconsider ur homosexuality

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lesbian bodies don_t exist for men

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homosexual=bad

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Straight man advocates _stomping TERFs_ on International Lesbian Day

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Pride ESPECIALLY not for lesbians

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13yr old lesbian bullied pt2

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being lesbian = transmisogyny

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meta

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challenge cissexism! get back in the closet!

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vagina fetishists 3.0

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not pro rape, but anti-saying-no

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lesbian = bad

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that spelling again. _ _choke_

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lesbians who _don_t do dick_ are gross

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one had the NERVE!

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sleeping = hate speech now

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Transphobic to say no bc of anatomy

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make ur lesbian friend_s life miserable

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we_re not meant to be attracted to a specific sex

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wokebloke chimes in on problematic lesbianism

lesbians are creepy

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lesbians can only experience attraction with females. that_s all we_re saying

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Nobody fancies penises or vaginas

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so lesbians should deny their orientation. #progressive

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penis-exclusionary lesbians are a problemtransmisogyny

transphobic to be gay - leave that in 2017

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no penis = terf. bi inclusive at least

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orientation = eliminating trans

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Rainbow Wellington Avery Edison

terf = lesbian

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examine why you wouldn_t have sex with a penis.

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lezzers- there_s no reason to not be attracted to someone of the other sex

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girl cock 234567

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have you considered your lesbianism might not be compassionate_

orientations are transphobic

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lack of attraction is due to the fact 100_ of men calling themselves transwomen are male

validating feels is more important than asserting boundaries and desire

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transactivists letting us know when _no_ is okay

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how can_t they see how messed up this is_

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Dan Savage (a man) advice pt 1 (question)

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lesbians may be lying about being female homosexuals - don_t trust them

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you_re a terf if you_re a lesbian (female homosexual)

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if sex matters, you don_t love your partner. Not manipulative at all. Targeted at lesbians

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Imagine being gay - gross

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this one is just confusing

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lesbians who say NO to dick are bitches. dildo ref. _nothing like the real thing_

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transphobic

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Avery Edison shaming lesbians by framing same-sex attraction as problematic _conditional_ like that_s bad

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you_re a piece of shit if you say you don_t want dick

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actively try fix your feelings you penis-repulsed lesbian

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lesbian = transphobic

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homophobic bi

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lesbians are annoying

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man haters

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nobody is gay (fancies penises or vaginas)

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thanks for clarifying your homophobia

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lesbians are heteronormative. should sleep with men to _correct_

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lesbian = narrow minded

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_reduce women to genitals_

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reducing to genitals_transphobic homosexuals

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not fucking men = bad(1)

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fetish gross + not real lesbians

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homosexual = bad

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being homosexual is reprehensible

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lesbians stop breathing

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same sex attraction = bad

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being a lesbian is a bigoted _life choice_ now

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_It_s your duty_ to sleep with males. not incel at all

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Riley J Dennis being a homophobe

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fetishists again _(

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Hey lesbian transphobes

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eating pussy is transmisogynistic LOOOL

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defining lesbianism as female homosexuality is bad for women. terfs can choke

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sex being a deal breaker = bigoted

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transmisogyny

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if you love someone their sex shouldn_t matter. _you_ll be able to get over it_

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lesbians should consider being with men

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unlearning

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perverted creepy lesbians again

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lesbians are shallow. hmm

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Not liking penis = cissexism

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no to transwomen is misogyny - not an acceptable boundary

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penis repulsion_ unlearn your transmisogyny!

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orientation = terf

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feels over reals

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or.. you are a lesbian

lesbians are ugly and not cool for having boundaries

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everyday conversion therapy - undermining _NO_

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creepy, scary, predatory, fetishistic vagina cult lesbians. chasers.

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it_s bad for lesbians to be exclusuvely attracted to females

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weird fetish to be a female homosexual

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genital preferences are transphobic

lesbians are homophobic for not wanting to sleep with men

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lesbians joking abou eating pussy = transphobic

go choke lesbians

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rape survivors- unlearn the cissexism of connecting penises with rape

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lesbians are no longer homosexual according to this man

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change ur attitude towards penises to stop being phobic

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only rape is a valid excuse

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men know to hate lesbians. inspiring

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fetishists(1)

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more brainwashing _ bullying

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no justifiable no

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RJD being a lesbophobe again

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Lesbians are WRONG

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female homosexuality is okay to police. thanks Riley

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TERF means lesbian.

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not sleeping with dick = transphobia

wants to burn lesbians

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More sad lesbians

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Munroe Bergdorf - Hairy lesbian

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terfs are lesbians

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an exceptionally stupid man

insecure shallow lesbians

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straight women schooling us all

lesbian = female homosexual is hate speech

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We’re sorry to have to document this pattern of cotton ceiling harassment within the LGBT community, but the time has come for us to name the problem and speak up against it. We can’t have any more women hurt from this bullying.

Thank you for taking the time to read through.

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This is a heavy topic. If you need to talk to someone right now and you’re in Aotearoa you can text or call 1737. There are other helplines and support services available here.

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If you are a lesbian who wants to get involved with our collective you can contact us here.

If you are a member of the media or an organiser in an LGBT organisation in Aotearoa, you are welcome to approach us regarding this issue here.

* It’s also worth noting that research has shown lesbians are actually more likely to date a trans person than gay men or straight people are, yet bullying is overwhelmingly targeted at lesbians. The authors of the linked study singled lesbians out as troubling because we were twice as likely to say we would date a female person (who identifies as a man) than give the ‘correct’ answer of saying we would date a male person (who identifies as a woman). Our exclusive same-sex attraction is constantly problematised.

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